Facebook status: in an open relationship

While at work today, I was browsing the news and got to this article that talks about being in an open relationship,upon reading the article I remembered what my current Facebook status is and why it came up to such status. I'm not in any serious relationship nor in any type of relationship, it is by choice as to why I'm being single til now, I guess coming from a  5 year relationship,you would to enjoy what life is like being Single. While reading the article I came to realize that the said status is beneficial for me for now since I'm not open into having a serious and longterm relationship, being in an open relationship it's like I'm just checking the water as to how it is like, but I know for sure that I can't stand it for so long,coz knowing myself on how clingy I am and as to how jealous I could get.

sharing with you the article i read at yahoo.com.ph:


An open relationship is one in which both people agree to get involved in a physical (or emotional) relationship with other people without the act being considered to be infidelity. This is the textbook definition of an open relationship. Of course, it depends on the couple involved.

While an open relationship is not the choice of many, some people have given it a shot. Below are the top reasons they give for  being in an open relationship.

1. It promises variety. The biggest benefit is that there will be variety in your life. While you will always have someone to go back home to, you will have the option of going to someone else if you so wish. This variety is good as it prevents boredom and adds a fair amount of spice to life.

2. It helps bring couples closer. Believe it or not, an open relationship just might help bring you closer. The fact that you will be involved with other people will only help you realise the value of your partner and what she brings to the relationship.

3. It's a "fantasy." Kinky excites everyone! An open relationship helps you live out your kinkiest fantasies. Not many people get to live their romantic fantasies so if you get a chance to live yours, then you shouldn’t shy away from it.

4. It gives serves up options. An open relationship will work wonders if you are too young, or either partner is going to spend a long time away because of work/study. This way you have each other to fall back on, as well the liberty to move on in case you meet someone interesting. This setting helps avoid awkwardness and surely prevents cheating. A win-win arrangement for both parties involved.


Bottom line: An open relationship is not something everyone can handle. The emotions, demands, and workings of such a relationship are different from what is considered ‘normal’. Make sure that you and your partner are on the same page and that both of you equally wish to be in an open relationship.

10 Ways to Deal With Unrequited Love

Is it coincidence or what?It's Independence day and while I was busy browsing the web looking for articles that soothes my preference or should I say mood of the moment, I came across this blog from Charlene J. Owen that talks about dealing with unrequited love, just the perfect article for me should I say, as curious as I am, I hurriedly checked on the blog. here's the link for you to fully read it: http://www.femalenetwork.com/sex-relationships/single-girls/he-loves-me-not-10-ways-to-deal-with-unrequited-love

1. DETERMINE WHETHER IT’S REALLY LOVE OR JUST INFATUATION. 
2. FLIRT WITH HIM TO GET THE LAY OF THE LAND. 
3. TAKE A RISK AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. 
4. CRY.
5. REMEMBER THAT THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH WHO YOU ARE. 
6. BE BEAUTIFUL--GO FOR A LITTLE SELF-INDULGENCE RATHER THAN SELF-PITY. 
7. KEEP BUSY. 
8. GO ON A TRIP. 

9. ACCEPT IT. 

 10. MOVE FORWARD. 

I hurriedly checked myself and pondered where am I or should I say what staged am I now,then I realized that I'm almost there,and the only I don't have the courage of doing is on taking the risk by telling him how I feel,I guess I can't stand the pain of being rejected. Nonetheless, I know I can and will move on,soon...

Top 20 lessons about LOVE from the movies

I was browsing the internet when I bumped into this online article that talks about 20 heartfelt lessons from romantic movies, the article strucked me and made me realize on some things ,so let me share it with you guys,and if you would like to check out the said article just click on this link as I'm just gonna summarize the lessons: http://www.femalenetwork.com/sex-relationships/single-girls/reel-love-20-heartfelt-lessons-from-romantic-movies

LESSON #1: LOVE IS SOMETIMES FOUND EXACTLY WHEN YOU AREN'T LOOKING FOR IT.
                           from: How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)


LESSON #2: YES, YOU CANFIND LOVE IN CYBERSPACE.
                           from: You’ve Got Mail (1998)


LESSON #3: DON'T LET BAD BREAKUPS MAKE YOU JADED.
                           from: Kate & Leopold  (2001)


LESSON #4: DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON JERKS.
                           from: He’s Just Not That into You (2009)


LESSON #5: PERFECTION IS UNATTAINABLE AND OVERRATED.
                           from: Hitch (2005)


LESSON #6: DON'T JUDGE A PERSON BY THE WAY HE LOOKS.
                           from: Beauty and the Beast(1991)


LESSON #7: SOMETIMES TRUE LOVE IS STANDING RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU.
                           from: 13 Going on 30 (2004)


LESSON #8: BE HONEST.
                           from: John Tucker Must Die(2006)


LESSON #9: PROTECT YOUR PRIVACY.
                           from: Easy A (2011)


LESSON #10: DON'T COMPROMISE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR YOUR CAREER AND VICE VERSA.
                             from: The Devil Wears Prada(2006)


LESSON #11: IT'S OKAY TO FALL FOR YOUR BEST FRIEND.
                            from:  Friends with Benefits(2011)


LESSON #12: KNOW WHEN TO LET GO.
                             from: My Best Friend’s Wedding (1997)


LESSON #13: GIVE AND TAKE.
                             from: Notting Hill (1999)


LESSON #14: IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, IT'S MEANT TO BE.
                             from: Serendipity (2011)


LESSON #15: SOMETIMES, THOUGH, YOU'VE GOT TO GIVE FATE A HAND.
                             from: Can't Hardly Wait(1998)


LESSON #16: LIFE (AND LOVE) RARELY TURNS OUT THE WAY YOU PLAN.
                             from: While You Were Sleeping(1995)


LESSON #17: DON'T LET LOVE CLOUD YOUR JUDGMENT.
                             from: (500) Days of Summer(2009)


LESSON #18: YOU NEVER FORGET YOUR FIRST LOVE, BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN IT'S YOUR LAST.
                      from: Like Crazy (2011) 


LESSON #19: ALL THINGS COME IN DUE TIME.
                      from: Never Been Kissed(1999)


LESSON #20: LOVE YOURSELF.
                      from: Penelopen (2006)

Makes sense right?

5 things I wanna do before I turn 30

I know it's still 5 more years from the posting of this blog,before I turn 30,but yes seriously I wanna achieve 10 these 10 things. I guess I was inspired by my friend Sandra since she started blogging the 5 things she wants to achieve, so let me start it now:

1. GET MARRIED - hahaaha,,,that is in BOLD letters,this is a goal that I'm meaning to achieve and is constantly hoping for,but yes I'm open to whatever life has to offer,if I am destined to be single forever, I'm gonna accept and be happy about it...(Mr. Right I hope our paths will meet soon...lol)

2. Travel  - I am Dora the Explorer, I love to travel and it makes me happy, I don't mind the traffic,delayed flights as long as I get to travel. can't wait to travel abroad may it be with family or friends or even solo...

3. learn how to swim - yes I admit the fact that I don't know how to swim, and since I love going to the beach therefore it is a must for me to know swimming, coz I've been wanting to try discovering what the world is under the sea...

4. learn how to bake - having a sweet tooth is so difficult coz you just can't resist the temptation,I wanna learn how to bake a cake from scratch and eat them right after...hahaha

5. work abroad - I planned my life 5 years ago and one of the plans was to work abroad, I always wanted to move out of the country to help the people around me. I guess it's just being practical coz in reality no matter how hardworking you are here in our country, it is next to impossible to have a stress free life..

It is by putting it into action that these goals will turn into a reality..soon....

In My Dreams

Just like what the song title says,he will always be In My Dreams. I guess I have to accept the fact that we can't have it all and that sometimes letting go is always the best option.